The most costly swinger-dating mistake
As any good salesman will tell you, 'closing the sale' is a process that should be going on all the time, from the moment a meeting with a customer begins to when the sale is agreed upon. This idea needs to be applied to all chat-up situations and even to swinger dating. It is particularly essential for a single male trying to get onto the first step of the swinger lifestyle ladder. Single guys and many newcomer swinger couples frequently manage to do all the right thing when chatting up other swingers, then ruin everything by neglecting the closure. In these situations, the other person (or couple) is ready to get physical, the sexual chemistry is there and the date or meeting could not be going better. In fact, things have gone so well that time has whizzed by and no one has got around to doing anything sexual before the goodbyes are being said with someone suggesting another meeting again some time. Everyone goes off home thinking about what a nice guy or couple they met an...