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The most costly swinger-dating mistake

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As any good salesman will tell you, 'closing the sale' is a process that should be going on all the time, from the moment a meeting with a customer begins to when the sale is agreed upon. This idea needs to be applied to all chat-up situations and even to swinger dating. It is particularly essential for a single male trying to get onto the first step of the swinger lifestyle ladder. Single guys and many newcomer swinger couples frequently manage to do all the right thing when chatting up other swingers, then ruin everything by neglecting the closure. In these situations, the other person (or couple) is ready to get physical, the sexual chemistry is there and the date or meeting could not be going better. In fact, things have gone so well that time has whizzed by and no one has got around to doing anything sexual before the goodbyes are being said with someone suggesting another meeting again some time. Everyone goes off home thinking about what a nice guy or couple they met an...

Signs Your Ex Girlfriend Still Loves You

 Understanding the difference could spell success or disaster when it involves fixing an unwanted breakup. There are plenty of signs a woman might give off when she still loves you. Some are easy to spot. Others are a lot more subtle. But it's not enough just to recognize them, you also have to know what each of these signs means. Knowing those answers can mean the difference between getting back together or taking you and your ex-girlfriend further apart. The Biggest Signals Given off by an Ex-Girlfriend Timing is everything. In working to get back together you can't take any unwanted action. You need to know what to do, and more importantly when to do it. You also need to know when it's time to hang back and leave her alone, so your ex can start missing you again. In the meantime, you'll recognize the subsequent as signs that, at the very least, your ex remains brooding about you: She Stays Friends with you on Facebook It's not uncommon lately to defriend one ano...

LOVE WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND

 Not all pretty girls can make their boys go crazy over them. It is not the face or the body that makes your boyfriend stick with you. It is beyond the eye. Personality-wise you can make your boyfriend go crazy about you. Just follow these steps - Be confident. Confidence makes your man invest more feelings for you. Let him feel that you are independent, you can do a lot of things with or without him. Your confidence leads your man to be a bit intimidated. He will see that you are unafraid to fight for a challenge and your independence makes him a little weak seeing you secure. Yes, boys find confident girls very attractive because they love the personality of being self-assured. Talk less and listen more. Let him know that you are interested in what he does. As much as possible, do not interrupt him while he is talking. Listen carefully to his stories, his ideas, his plans... ask him a bit of question so he will realize that you want to know more about him. Always begin your conv...

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  Unrequited love addicts are part of the category of Ambivalent Love Addicts. Susan Peabody was the first to create the term "Ambivalent Love Addiction". Her book "Addiction to Love: Overcoming Obsession and Dependency in Relationships," is an amazing book for anyone wishing to learn more about love addiction. To be an ambivalent love addict or torchbearer, means that one deeply craves love, intimacy, commitment, and unconditional love. However, at the same time, one has fears of relating deeply to another person. Such love addicts can end up pushing love away or holding it at a distance. Subconsciously, it can feel much safer for these individuals to love someone who isn't fully there or who doesn't want a full-on commitment. Picking an individual who is married, committed to another, distant, a player, a saboteur, or a sex addict may act to help the torchbearer avoid a true relationship. Some torchbearers end up addicted to friends or colleagues and hope ...